This is a reaction to this post. I don't hate monogamy. I hate that people don't make conscious choices. In today's society, the default is monogamy. A lot of people don't know that there are other options you can select from the pull-down menu of relationship styles. And a lot more people don't consider anything but… Continue reading choose wisely
I hate this term. For me, it implies that relationships are tests. Which means check the correct box, say the correct short answers, pick the "right" option (it's always C). It may be multiple choice, but there's really only one "best" answer, right⸮ Being a bit of a relationship anarchist, I mentally gagged typed that.… Continue reading failed relationships.
I know some people wonder if I'm polyamorous because of my divorce (obviously these are people who don't know me, because I was open/polyam before I even met my husband). And I've heard, not to my face of course, that our relationship was doomed to fail because it was open. Hell, my ex created an… Continue reading peeping toms