In this episode, Alex Rich joins DeeRae to talk about sex, sexuality, sexual health, addressing the sexual shame that comes from purity culture, and destigmatizing STIs. GUEST INFO: Alex Rich, Sexologoy Bae Instagram: @sexologybae Twitter: @GeauxSeeTheLady Things mentioned in the episode: Winter Wake Up Tea Just Add Honey Tea Co Study re: ENM & STI… Continue reading Let’s Talk About Sex, Part 1: Addressing Shame & Stigma
Tag: conscious choices
Being Vulnerable
In this episode, Dee talks about vulnerability - what is it and what are ways to foster vulnerability in your relationships. Things mentioned in the episode: Spellbound LLC TRANSCRIPT
Connections, Not Configurations
In this episode, Dee talks about the importance of cultivating intimacy and connections -- instead of focusing on what kind of super specific configuration you want. Things mentioned in the episode: Biron Tea SipsBy Tea What Will Had To Say TRANSCRIPT
Foundations: Steps to Discovering What You Really Want in Non-Monogamy
In this episode, Dee talks about the thing she wish most people thought about in regards to non-monogamy foundational work: determining what you want out of nonmonogamy and relationships, in general and specifically. Things mentioned in the episode: Relationship Anarchy Smorgasboard (clearer picture here) Relationship Manifesto/Care & Feeding Manual TRANSCRIPT
“I Can Barely Keep One Happy!”: Exploring the Concept of Bandwidth
In this episode, Dee talks about the idea that the capacity someone has for giving versus receiving love is scalable, exploring what your bandwidth is, and Dunbar's number. Things mentioned in the episode: Adagio Teas Kentucky Bourbon Judge Ketanji Brown Jackson's confirmation hearing Dunbar's Number TRANSCRIPT
Down with Amatonormativity: Aromanticism & Relationship Anarchy
In this episode, Dee talks about the concept of amatonormativity, discovering how she was aromantic, and what relationship anarchy looks like and means to her. Things mentioned in the episode: Dollar Tea Club Mulled Wine Amatonormativity Aromantic Spectrum Relationship Anarchy TRANSCRIPT
Sunny Dee Answers: Questions from Listeners
In this episode, Dee gives an overview of non-monogamy, talks about some non-monogamous terms, and answers ten questions from listeners. Things mentioned in the episode: Dwell Tea Co Stepping Off The Relationship Escalator book & other resources Designer Relationships book TRANSCRIPT
Getting The Kinks Out: My Journey to Kink
In this episode, I talk about my journey to kink and a few of my experiences in my local kink community. I also talk about how I currently identify in regards to kink and how I'm slowly moving forward. TRANSCRIPT
choose wisely
This is a reaction to this post. I don't hate monogamy. I hate that people don't make conscious choices. In today's society, the default is monogamy. A lot of people don't know that there are other options you can select from the pull-down menu of relationship styles. And a lot more people don't consider anything but… Continue reading choose wisely
bandwidth
The various ways that people differ is so interesting for me; I love talking about how others think and order their lives and then speculate on how that - on how they - came about. Sometimes I think I should have studied sociology, or anthropology, or psychology...then I remember I'm just nosy. Ha! Anywho, since… Continue reading bandwidth